What Happened:
At first i thought it was love but after the first 6 months the
respect i thought my boyfriend had for me was lost. Each day he humiliated
me in front of my friends and treated me as his "bitch" - his words
exactly. i was so deeply in love that i didn't want to lose him. My
friends constantly nagged me to get rid of him but after being with
the same person for over a year you kind of feel attached or something.
The things he did to me were worse than bad, his temper was very short
and at times he pushed me and hesitated to hit me, but just because
his punches never conected to me doesn't mean he didn't put me through
hell. Each day 'shut up you don't know what you're talking about', or
'look at her she is dressed like a tart'. I wasn't allowed to wear skirts
or go out with my friends or even communicate with his and my male friends.
He became a over protective jealous violent boyfriend who also managed
to make me feel very self consicous about myself.
How the situation changed:
After a year and a half i have learnt no matter which guy it is always
care about yourself and don't let no guy ever run your life you are
who you are and believe in yourself.